Psychic love and dating advice for men
And of course retaliation from their wives – not realizing, of course, that everything in life tends to come with a price tag attached.
They, instead, yearn for the new life without any sacrifices involved which is an entirely unrealistic way of thinking on their part.
The problem as I perceive it in such unbalanced relationships – he professes to be extremely unhappy but stays married, you love him but he won’t commit to more than your regular clandestine meetings – is that you and the vast numbers of women like you are dealing with men who are essentially “hiding out” in their marriages.
Yes, even though they yearn earnestly to reach out for that Something More: complete, fulfilled, happy lives to live for themselves in the future with another woman.
My perception of the cards in such cases is the man in question wants to begin that new course, very badly.
However, he can’t seem to find the courage to ultimately let go. Rarely do I perceive in cards attached to long term affairs that the men involved still love their wives.
This “coming to terms” with the realities of life as it currently exists for their married lovers is perceived to be a significant personal journey only that married man can take in his own way and time.
The problem is it can take so long for this departure from marriage to occur that the “other woman” outgrows her attachment to that married man while waiting for him to become free and generally moves on to stronger, healthier relationships with other available men in the meantime.
How they arrived at such a difficult place in their lives really doesn’t matter.
What they do once they find themselves engulfed in such affairs is what’s most important.
These are the most obvious obstacles to their own future happiness that these men must come to face and deal with on their own.
Sometimes, they just can’t bring themselves to do it.
From my experience, a large number of men who carry on secretly for the long term in deeply romantic relationships with one special woman outside of marriage actually mean the promises they make: “We will be together one day,” “I will leave her, I don’t love her anymore,” etc.